Dan Savage



Daniel Keenan Savage (born October 7, 1964 near Chicago, Illinois, United States) is an openly gay American sex advice columnist, author, media pundit, journalist, and newspaper editor. His strong opinions pointedly clash with both traditional conservative moral values and those put forth by what Savage has been known to call the "gay establishment." Savage has also worked as a theater director, both under his real name and under the name Keenan Hollahan, using his middle name and his grandmother's maiden name.

Savage Love
Savage is best known for penning the internationally syndicated relationship and sex advice column "Savage Love". Its tone is humorous, profane, and often hostile to social conservatives, as in the Santorum controversy.

The idea for the column began while Savage was living in Madison, Wisconsin, and working as a manager at Four Star Video Heaven, a local video store that specialized in independent film titles. His coworker Joel announced that he was moving to Seattle to help start an alternative weekly newspaper, The Stranger. Savage "made the offhand comment that forever altered [his] life: 'Make sure your paper has an advice column—everybody claims to hate 'em, but everybody seems to read 'em'." At Joel's behest, Savage typed up a sample column. Joel passed the prototype on to The Stranger's publisher, Tim Keck, and to Savage's surprise Keck offered him the job.

Savage stated in a February 2006 interview in The Onion's A.V. Club section (which publishes his column) that he began the column with the express purpose of providing mocking advice to heterosexuals. "Forever, I'd read letters that had been written from straight advice columnists to gay people. Sometimes the advice was okay, but often it was clueless about gay issues or gay people or gay sex or gay rights. And I just thought it would be funny for once if there was an advice column written by a gay person where straight people had to get slapped around or treated with contempt." Savage wanted to call the column "Hey Faggot!" His editors at the time refused his choice of column name, but for the first several years of the column, he attached "Hey Faggot!" at the beginning of each printed letter as a salutation. According to Savage:
 * When I started writing this column in 1991, there was a debate raging in hellish homosexual circles about words like faggot. The idea was that if we used these words ourselves--Queer Nation, Dyke March, "Hey, Faggot"--straights couldn't use them as hate words anymore. I chose "Hey, Faggot" as my salutation in joking reference to this lively debate about reclaiming hate words.

In his February 25, 1999 column, Savage announced that he was retiring the phrase:
 * Lo many columns later, it feels strange to begin every column with a joke about a debate that ended years ago.

Recently, he has written in a number of columns about "straight rights" concerns, such as the HPV vaccine and the morning-after pill, saying in his November 9 2005, column that "[t]he right-wingers and the fundies and the sex-phobes don't just have it in for the queers. They're coming for your asses too."

Other projects
In addition to his weekly article and authoring four books, Savage is involved in several other projects.

He is now the editorial director at of the Seattle weekly newspaper The Stranger. It was a step up within the paper: He was previously the Stranger's editor-in-chief. Savage currently is a contributor to This American Life, an hour-long radio show on Chicago's WBEZ syndicated by PRI.

From at least September 1994 until 1997, he had a weekly 2-hour call-in show called Savage Love Live on Seattle's KCMU (now KEXP). From 1998 to 2000, he ran the bi-weekly advice column Dear Dan on the news website abcnews.com. Savage is also a frequent contributor to Out magazine.

Theatrical works
Savage studied theater and history in college at the University of Illinois; as a theater director, Savage (working under the name "Keenan Hollahan") was a founder of Seattle's Greek Active Theater. Much of the group's work was queer re-contextualizations of classic works, such as a tragicomic Macbeth with both the title character and Lady Macbeth played by performers of the opposite gender. More recently, in March 2001 he directed his own Egguus, a parody of Peter Shaffer's 1973 play Equus that exchanged a fixation on horses for a fixation on chickens. Savage has not directed, produced, or performed in any productions since a 2001 production of his trimmed version of Mark Twain's "The Diary of Adam and Eve," which received poor reviews, including an extremely negative review from his own paper.

Podcast
A podcast of Dan Savage's column Savage Love is available at iTunes and at the Stranger's website for free download. It features Dan doing a call-in version of his sex advice column.

Political advocacy
Savage has written about his interest in political matters. His political leanings are primarily leftist or liberal, with a pronounced libertarian streak.



In 2000, he wrote that while suffering from the influenza virus while on an assignment for salon.com to cover the Iowa caucuses, he was so angered by televised remarks in opposition to same-sex marriage by conservative Republican presidential hopeful Gary Bauer that he abandoned his original plan "to follow one of the loopy conservative Christian candidates around—Bauer or Alan Keyes—and write something insightful and humanizing about him, his campaign, and his supporters."

Instead, he volunteered for the Bauer campaign, intending to infect the candidate with his flu. He wrote that he'd licked doorknobs and other objects in the campaign office, and handed Bauer a saliva-coated pen, hoping to pass the disease on to Bauer and his supporters (though he later said that much of the article had been fictitious). He also registered and participated in the caucus, which was illegal, as Savage was not an Iowa resident. He was charged and pled guilty to a misdemeanor charge of fraudulent voting in a caucus, and was sentenced to a year's probation, 50 hours of community service, and a $750 fine.

Savage often makes mention of political issues in his column, particularly issues that affect family planning, birth control, and sexuality. He often encourages readers to get involved, and often voices a positive or negative opinion about a politician or public official. After Rick Santorum, then a United States senator from Pennsylvania, made comments to a reporter comparing homosexual sex to bestiality and incest, Savage assailed Santorum in his columns, and eventually had a contest that ultimately led to the name santorum being used to refer to a byproduct of anal sex.

Savage also strongly supported the war in Iraq in the pages of The Stranger in October 2002. By the time of the U.S. invasion in March 2003, however, he had somewhat softened his argument.

Personal opinions
Savage often surprises readers by defending unexpected positions. Among his more surprising or controversial statements:
 * Savage wrote a piece questioning the validity of the gay pride parade as a way to build community.
 * Savage initially supported the Iraq war and advocated military action against other Middle Eastern states, including Iran and Saudi Arabia. He later supported sending additional American troops to Iraq to increase security in the country. However, he now deems the situation hopeless and advocates for an immediate troop withdrawal.
 * He describes his view towards family as "conservative", and his boyfriend, Terry Miller, is a "stay-at-home dad" for the couple's adopted son. He has, however, expressed skepticism of "simplistic" views of monogamy.
 * He has often clashed with other prominent figures in Seattle's gay community. For example, he has often expressed contempt for the editorial calibre of the Seattle Gay News.
 * Under his editorship, The Stranger frequently publishes criticisms of the messages put out by local AIDS organizations and of how they handle their money.
 * In response to a letter asking "Is the AIDS crisis over?" Savage, in his October 22, 1997 column, answered simply, "Yes." Several weeks of columns were devoted in whole or in part to discussion of the issue.
 * In an interview with the Daily Pennsylvanian, Savage stated that then-Green Party Senate candidate Carl Romanelli, who he claimed was partially funded by state Republicans for a spoiler effect against Democrat Bob Casey, "should be dragged behind a pickup truck until there's nothing left but the rope." (See James Byrd, Jr.) In the same interview, he stated, "Mr. Romanelli should go fuck himself." For this comment, Savage wrote right after the interview that "I regret using that truck metaphor, and didn't mean it literally, and it was in poor taste, and I regret it."

Views on outing
Savage stated in a column that he favours outing in some cases. He specifically mentioned Tyler Whitney, an anti-gay activist who is himself gay. However in the same column he said, "I recently talked someone out of outing a public figure. A Savage Love reader was contemplating outing an innocuous celeb back in April. I advised him against it because, as I wrote to him privately, outing is brutal and it should be reserved for brutes."

Local issues
Savage's editorship of The Stranger has established him as a voice in local Seattle politics. His most high-profile commentary has been as an outspoken critic of the Teen Dance Ordinance and other crackdowns on all-ages events.

Savage argues that closing down supervised all-ages dance venues drives teens to boredom and reckless activities: "Places like Ground Zero and the Kirkland Teen Center are invaluable from a law enforcement point of view. They keep kids out of, say, 7-Eleven parking lots or the homes of friends whose parents are away."

Religion
Savage declared in his syndicated sex advice column: "I'm Catholic &mdash; in a cultural sense, not an eat-the-wafer, say-the-rosary, burn-down-the-women's-health-center sense. I attended Quigley Preparatory Seminary North, a Catholic high school in Chicago for boys thinking of becoming priests. I got to meet the Pope in 1979 when he dropped by our school during his visit to Chicago". Shortly after the death of Pope John Paul II, he wrote in the same column:


 * John Paul II had more "no's" for straight people than he did for gays. But when he tried to meddle in the private lives of straights, the same people who deferred to his delicate sensibilities where my rights were concerned suddenly blew [him] off. Gay blowjobs are expendable, it seems; straight ones are sacred.


 * So I can't get behind this orgy of cheap and easy piety . . .. I'm sorry the old bastard's dead, I'm sorry he suffered. But I'm not so sorry that I won't stoop to working John Paul II into a column about zombie fetishism.

Ann Landers
On December 3, 2002, Savage announced in an article that he had purchased columnist Ann Landers' desk; she had died earlier in the year (on June 22). Dan Savage has facetiously referred to Ann Landers as his "college roommate" and said "I like to think of myself as a gay Ann Landers."

Publications

 * Savage Love: Straight Answers from America's Most Popular Sex Columnist (October 1998) (ISBN 0-452-27815-5), a collection of letters from his column.
 * The Kid (1999) (ISBN 0-525-94525-3), relating how he and his boyfriend adopted a baby boy through open adoption. (June 8, 2000)
 * Skipping Towards Gomorrah: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Pursuit of Happiness in America (2002) (ISBN 0-452-28416-3), which describes his exploration of the seven deadly sins (September 1, 2003. The title is a satiric reference to Robert Bork's book Slouching Towards Gomorrah: Modern Liberalism and American Decline.)
 * The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage, and My Family (2005) (ISBN 0-525-94907-0), a memoir of his life, relationship and family and a commentary on the gay marriage debate. (September 27, 2005)